September 07, 2013
Bangalore, India
Gurudev, with so many negative influences from the world outside,
how can I give the right values to my children and skillfully introduce them to
spirituality?
Sri Sri: I think you should keep this question in your mind, and keep
bringing it up again and again.
What I would say is, you should engage your children to do some service
activity, so that they are not always thinking about themselves. Send them to
camps where they do some service activity.
When children start sharing and caring for people from a very
small age, they become very aware when they grow older. They don’t become so
self centered and always think,
‘What about me!’ Instead they will think, ‘What can I do? How can I contribute,
how can I make this world a better place?’
This sort of spirit in a child will always keep them in the right path. If you
make them too selfish, all the time thinking only about themselves, they will
not even care for their parents.
There
is a story about a dacoit who turned into a saint.
Once a dacoit met a saint. The dacoit came and the saint looked at him and
asked him, ‘Why are you doing this?’ The dacoit had killed many people.
The saint told the dacoit, 'Do you have any idea who much sin you have
acquired?'
Then dacoit thought about it and said, ‘Yes, I have sinned a lot.’
The saint asked, ‘Why are you doing it?’
He said, 'For the sake of my family. I have to support my family and so I’m
stealing and killing people'.
The saint said, ‘I have a question for you to go and ask your family, will you
do it?’
He said, ‘Okay, I can consider that'.
The saint said, ‘Go and ask your family if they will share your sins? They are
sharing your wealth, but will they share your sins?’
So the dacoit went and asked his father, ‘Father, I have committed so much sin
to run this household, will you share my sins?’
The father looked down and said, ‘No’.
Then he went and asked his wife, ‘Will you share my sin?'
She said, ‘No. I will only share your wealth, I can’t share your sins. You have
to bear your own cross’.
So
it suddenly dawned on him, everyone wants comfort from me but nobody wants to
take my burden. So he went back to the saint and the saint smiled at him and
said, ‘The world is only concerned about what you can do for them, they don’t
want to share your sins, or your problems’.
Then he realized, and at that moment he transformed to be a very good person, a
good saint and a good poet. The whole transformation happened from that moment
on.
He had loved his wife so much, and she said, 'No, I am only concerned about
your position, your money and your growth. I don’t want to take your burden.’
Without much words she conveyed that she was not willing to share his sins.
That struck him! Ah, all these years I was blind! I didn’t sit and think for
myself. Now is the time I have to look within. What is the purpose of this
life? Where am I going? What will happen?
It
is said, when someone dies, some people mourn for a day. They say, ‘Oh, he was
a nice guy’. Some others mourn for a few days. The wives and children will
mourn for a week, ten days or a month, and then that is it! Everybody is back
to doing their own work. They take care of their life, their things, and you
are nowhere in their picture! Gone!
It
applies to the women also. A woman spends her whole life for her family. Day
and night she lives for the kids, for the elders, for the family, and then
what? Nothing! You are left all alone. Under the ground, or on the pyre and
everyone disappears.
So the hard truth of life is that all this is changing and our life will be
finished in another 20 years. Nobody will be here. We’d all be gone!
What goes with us is the impressions that are in our mind. What goes with us is
the anger, or the frustration, or the happiness, or the peace, or the love and
care that we keep in our heart. Only that goes with you and that is what we
come back with to life again.
So
attend to yourself, attend to your mind. Save your mind from all
these unwanted impressions and keep it fresh and alive.
Kabirdas (Indian poet) says, ‘I came to this world with a spotless
cloth, and I’m going back with a spotless cloth. I lived here spotlessly.’
The purpose of all this singing and meditating is to fill the mind with
positivity which stays with us forever. That is why the practices are called Sadhana. Dhana means wealth, sadhana means true
wealth that goes with you wherever you go.
The positive vibrations are the real true wealth that you acquire in your
life. Doing good service and meditation, all this is
complementary.
Dear Gurudev, I got introduced to Nadi astrology. Is there any
accuracy to this? If so, why couldn’t we predict the tsunami and other natural
disasters. Is there any benefit of getting Nadi astrology done?
Sri Sri: People have predicted all that. I myself had predicted that there
will be a big flood in the Ganges, and so this year don’t venture into any
adventures! Many people didn’t go. This is there.
Clairvoyant
visions are there, and nadi is one of them from the ancient
times, written by the Rishis. 95% or so is correct, and there could
be some possibility of change.
Human life is dynamic. If you have done good things and there is positive karma
accumulated in your life, things can become better. The base line can be
predicted.
You
must take all predictions and astrology with a little margin. Why a margin?
Because life is dynamic. The Divine can bestow you with some blessings and
things may change. Your consciousness has the ability to change things.
Suppose your astrologer says that you might have an accident, you don’t need to
have an accident. It’s a probability. You can overcome it. Don’t worry about
bad predictions. You can overcome it. It’s just a caution.
Like
when there’s a traffic jam, on the radio it says, don’t go on this highway
there is a traffic jam. By the time you reach, it can clear also, isn't it? So
you should see it that way. Then there are weather predictions. Most of the
time the weather predictions are not predicted right! (audience laughs)
They say there will be a thunderstorm and you will have sunny weather at that
time! Hasn’t this happened? But the meteorological departments doesn’t shut
down even if they have not been accurate, they continue to predict! (audience
laughs)
So
many astrologers could be like that. But some are accurate. It is a science to
see how the microcosm and the macrocosm are linked, and our life force is
eternal. This is not the only life. You might have been born in Africa, or in
Russia or China.
Life is a continuum. We keep coming back here with different
languages, different appearances; but the spirit is same. The spirit is one. Jyothishi means
recognizing the quality of light. Everyone is light. Knowing which type of
light is each one is called jyotishi.
Dear Gurudev, If Shiva is not a person and only a tattva (principle),
then how are there so many shakti peeths (seat of energy)
which are formed from the parts of Sati’s body?
Sri Sri: Shakti peeth means
a seat of energy.
How many of you felt that as soon as you came into the ashram, or even before
coming to the ashram, the whole energy changed? (Many in the audience raise
their hands)
Shakti peeth (seat
of energy) is the place where people have meditated for a long time and found
energy there. When you meditate and sing that energy gets stored in that place.
When you’re in a positive state of mind, not only you, even the pillars, and
the trees and stones absorb the positive vibrations. That is how these shakti
peethsare formed.Shakti peeth is where there is energy.
Gurudev, due to some hurt I’ve been abusing and cursing God. I’ve
always been a Divine loving person and I am not liking this behavior of mine.
How can I overcome this?
Sri Sri: Never mind. If you curse the Divine it is not going to react to
you. Don’t worry, it’s the safest! Otherwise if you get angry with somebody,
they will take revenge on you.
This
is the beauty of astrology. Astrology tells you that you are suffering because this
planet is in this position. How can you get angry with a planet? So your mind,
your anger, your frustration, and the cause of you unhappiness is given a
bigger cosmic dimension. The cosmic dimension gives the much needed calmness
and that strength which you need to face a tough situation. What you really
need in a tough situation is inner strength and inner calmness. That inner
strength comes to you with this understanding.
Gurudev, how to cultivate shraddha (faith)? The
mind is fickle and wants proof before it believes.
Sri Sri: The moment you understand that your mind is fickle then you’re
getting out of it. You can’t have a fickle mind for too long, some interval has
to come. That brings wisdom.
‘I am being fickle minded’, with that very awareness you become more stable.
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